Code of
Conduct
1. Introduction & Purpose:
Trans women of colour have high security concerns in this industry and in the world, especially in recent years. So this Code of Conduct exists to ensure that every client interaction is guided by mutual safety, sanity and consent. It minimizes misunderstandings and protects professional boundaries.
It outlines clear expectations for clients, and helps me focus on enjoyable, meaningful and mutually comfortable experiences.
Following these guidelines creates an environment of trust and clarity for both parties.
2. Communication Expectations:
You and I communicate clearly, directly and in a timely manner at all stages.
Plans, expectations and details are confirmed in advance to avoid misunderstandings.
You inform me promptly of any delays, changes or updates.
You maintain respectful language and a composed tone in all communication.
All communication between you and I remains private and is not shared with any third party.
3. Booking Protocol:
When you book a date with me, I will assume by default that you have read the website and understood all the necessary information clearly. I expect us to be on the same page.
Provide me with as much information as you can through my booking form, such as your personal details, experience and expectations.
We will set up the date, time and duration first.
This is followed by the verification and screening protocol.
Once cleared, we will confirm the booking with a 20% deposit.
Later on, we can discuss and customize the details to make sure we are both compatible and comfortable with the arrangement.
For more detailed information, please visit the Bookings page.
4. Verification & Screening Protocol:
After setting the date, time and duration, I will ask you to complete my simple one-time verification and screening protocol.
You provide valid, current and accurate information throughout the booking process.
The screening protocol is conducted through my secure and private communication channel.
For more detailed information, please visit the Screening Information page.
5. Payment Protocol:
All payments are for my time and companionship only.
A 20% non-refundable deposit is required to confirm our date.
The remaining amount is to be presented in cash, in an envelope, at the beginning of the meeting.
The cancellation policy and more detailed information are outlined on the Deposit Information page.
6. Behaviour Expectations:
I expect you and I to maintain courteous, respectful and professional behavior at all times.
I expect you to be in a positive state of mind and feel confident about our time together. If you are nervous, anxious or prone to panic attacks, then we are not compatible, and you should not book a date.
If behavior becomes disrespectful, aggressive, abusive or uncomfortable at any point , I will end the date at once and step away.
7. Boundaries & Consent:
Consent is explicit, ongoing, and we will respect that at all times.
You do not assume or extend beyond what is agreed.
Consent is continuous and remains in place throughout our time together.
You clarify your expectations and anything you are unsure about ahead of time and during the engagement.
I have a zero tolerance policy regarding boundary violations. Any attempt to override or ignore established boundaries is unacceptable and will breach our Terms and Conditions agreement.
For more information, please read the Terms & Conditions page.
8. Hygiene & Personal Presentation:
I expect you to arrive clean, well-groomed, put together and take a moment to freshen up at my place.
There is no dress code, wear whatever makes you comfortable, while staying appropriate to our date plan.
When you and I both show up well, the entire experience feels more comfortable and considered.
9. Substance & Health Safety:
Keeping things balanced with alcohol helps you and I stay present, aware and functional.
You will not bring any recreational drugs with you to our dates.
You will come sober and will not be on any recreational drugs during our time together.
I don’t engage in situations where pressure, overuse or anything that affects safety is involved.
Health and safety are shared responsibilities; ensuring a clear and safe environment protects both parties’ well-being.
10. Discretion & Privacy:
Discretion and privacy are fundamental. What you and I share stays between us, including conversations, details and time together; unless you choose otherwise.
No photos, videos or recordings take place at any point during our Private Time together; sharing any part of the experience in any form will be considered a breach of our agreements.
The Client-Provider Discretion Agreement is part of my Privacy Policy and it is automatically included with all interactions and dates, indefinitely.
11. Respecting the Agreement:
I expect you and I to respect and follow through on all mutually agreed terms & conditions, privacy policy, timing, structure and expectations for each engagement.
If these agreements are not respected, I will end the date immediately and remove myself from the situation.
Any serious breach of conduct, including harassment, discrimination, hate speech, verbal or emotional abuse, coercive or manipulative behaviour, non-consensual conduct, physical or sexual violation, or theft, will result in immediate termination of the date and all engagement. In such cases, the Client-Provider Discretion Agreement becomes null and void, and I will take appropriate steps to protect myself, including the use of available personal information for legal action and, where necessary, public reporting, as well as involving law enforcement.
For more information, please visit the Privacy Policy and the Terms & Conditions page.
Maintaining these agreements and standards ensures ongoing trust, safety and professionalism..
UPDATES: April 2026
1) As you may already be aware, there is a growing concern regarding the safety and security of transgender women worldwide, both socially and politically; particularly in the Northern Hemisphere.
Accordingly, I will be implementing additional safety and security measures to ensure my personal well-being and to maintain the quality and integrity of my companionship work with you.
2) I have streamlined my booking protocol to improve efficiency, allowing the process to be completed more smoothly for both of us.
3) There has been a noticeable increase in online scams across multiple channels. To address this, I have provided detailed information and protective guidelines on my Contact page.